Inspired (as always) by Ali Edwards and her word of the year, Story. It is funny because one of my sayings is "you don't know their story" I say it often to Mikaela if someone is rude to us in the street, or the like. Got me to thinking about my story & that I had been contemplating how to go about telling my story for some time, that there were pieces missing. That I want to tell them (not in a dreary, god my childhood was awful/traumatic... but a this is where I have been and it's okay). Kinda like a "Bio" documentary you'd watch on someone. I need my children to know these stories in a positive light, my stories, my truth...
Reading Ali's post got me to thinking I could do this project, and I could do it this year. That it doesn't have to be thought of as some mammoth task. I broke my Story into many "stories" and jotted down some 52 "jump start" ideas, my aim is to do a layout each week during twenty ten. So here is my first page, effectively the "Table of Contents" page to what will be "My Truth" album - stories all about me and my experiences, my passions, my dreams and my heart...
Those stories are:
• Me > biography, frank, factual and honest.
• Childhood, general honest & positive overview, not sad or self pitying! Not protective... just write it as it was!
• Siblings and the essential connections in growing up together x 4
• Each Sibling today & our relationship x4
• Mum
• Dad
• Grandparents x 4 > family tree - documents from 1800s etc
• Finding my cousins, my friends, soul sister Janice.
• Good Childhood Memories
• School/High School/ lamingtons/ Gifted and Talented
• Marrying young & divorce
• Working career, bakery, Casino, DIMIA, Childcare
• Me & alchol
• Living a year in Italy
• Becoming a mother
• The power of friendship > Jodie & Kim
• Contracting & tech writing
• Meeting Nathan
• So this is LOVE !!
• Gal Pals & sacred soul feminine friendships... sisterhood
• Therapy
• Becoming Mum to Boys
• I am an Artist
• Loving Nathan
• Nurturing my daughter
• Blended families
• A life to Cherish
• We’re cool now (Gwen Stafani song), Today Me & Papy - separately coparenting with Nath
• Nathan & Mikaela
• My husband, a Daddy
• My inlaws
• My Sister-In-Law
• Forgiveness & Compassion (family history stuff)
• Denial and Acceptance (family truths)
• Loving Unconditionally
• responsible behaviour and ownership of all behaviour
• creating a loving home
• being a stay at home Mum
• Career Motherhood
• Technology >imac >iphone>amazon kindle (or mac equivalent)?
• camera - Ella
• body image
• motherhood pride
• creativity & mothering, an artist, scrapper, photographer and tutor
• Time for self
• A supportive husband
• money matters
• disipline of children
• chores & pocket money
• music
• television
• movies
• books
I'm not going to place any pressure on myself to "get this done", I'm just going to take it easy and have fun with it.
Really this digi scrappin thing I am into right now is really something quite fabulous. Especially since I am yet to unpack any of my studio supplies in my new space... the dusty garage out the back, not near as inviting as my desk inside with the family. Mostly I am really enjoying sharing my office with Nath, he watches Survivor, I create a few layouts. Perfect!
Happy Birthday Jodes... you are one very beautiful thread in the tapestry of my life story so far. I hope your day is magic and twenty ten is a wonderful year for you *wink*
Hugs and Love
Bxo